WALIDAIN KE DOST AHBAAB KE SATH AHSAAN AUR HUSN E SULOOK KI AHMIYAT

WALIDAIN KE DOST AHBAAB KE SATH AHSAAN AUR HUSN E SULOOK KI AHMIYAT

Yaqeenan Maa-Baap Allah Ta’ala ki ek Azeem Nemat hai jiski Aksar Saheeh Qeemat Unke Dunya se Jaane ke Baad Maloom hoti hai, us waqt afsos se hum hath malte rehte hain ke Aye Kaash! Unki Qadr karli hoti. Quran o Hadees me Walidain ke Mutalliq kasrat se Ahkaam aye hain unko UFF kehna bhi bhot bada gunah bataya gaya hai. Ab Unke Inteqal ke baad kya kiya jaye ke Baaz Nafarmaniyon ki bharpaai hosake. Is silsile me to unke liye Dua e Maghfirat karni hai neez aur Aamaal bhi Shariyat ne bataye hain unme se Ek ye hai:
Hazrat Abdullah Bin Omar Razi Allahu anhu se marwi hai ke Rasool e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya:

Sab se Aala Nekiyon me se ek Aalaa Neki ye hai ke Koi Shakhs apne baap ke marne ke baad ya uski Ghair Maujoodgi me uske Doston ke sath Ahsaan O Sulook(acha sulook) kare.”
(MUSLIM, MISHKAT KITABUL ADAB BAAB BIRR WAS- SILAA)
Tashreeh: Matlab ye hai ke agar kisi ka baap margaya ya safar par gaya to uske doston ke sath Ahsaan o murawwat ka Mamla karna aur Husn e Sulook ka bartaao karna goya apne Baap ke sath Ahsaan aur Husne Sulook karna aur Iska ye mamla chunke apne Baap ki Ghair Maujoodgi me hoga is liye wo behtreen aur Aala Neki karne wala Shumaar hoga.

Note:- Hadees Shareef me sirf Baap ke doston ka Zikr karna is taraf Ishara karta hai ke MAA ki sakhi Saheliyon ke Sath Ahsaan o Husn e Sulook Badarje Aulaa Ek Behtreen Neki hoga. (MAZAHIR E HAQ 4/469)

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RIZQ O OMAR ME BARKAT

RISHTEDAARI KO JODNA = RIZQ OMAR ME IZAFA,
RISHTEDAARI TODNA = RIZQ OMAR ME KAMI.

Aksar hazraat ki yahi shikayat hoti hai ke Barkat nahi hai, Pareshaniyaan hai Uska Hal yahi hai ke Aj Kal Aksar Musalman Rishtedaari ke Todne par hai jodne par nahi.
Rishtedaari Jodiye aur dekhiye Allah Ta’ala Rizq o Omar me Barkat denge.
Note:- Silaa Rehmi( Rishtedari ka Jodna) aur Uski Ahmiyat ke Mutalliq Nabi e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ke Takeedi Amr Ap Mishkaat Shareef, Kitabul Aadaab, Baab Silaa Rehmi me padh sakte hain.
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Walidain Ke Sath Unke Inteqal ke baad Husn Sulook karne Ka Tareeqa 1

Walidain ke Inteqal ke Baad Unke Sath Sila Rehmi/Husn Sulook karne ke tareeqe

Assalamu Alaikum. Agar Apke Walidain ya unme se kisi ka Inteqal hogaya ho aur Ap Unke Sath ab bhi Husn Sulook karna chahte ho to Ye Chand Aamaal hai jinke Karne se Ap ab bhi apne walidain ke sath Husn Sulook karsakte hain.

1.Unke Liye Istighfaar karna:

Quran:

1.Allah Ta’ala ne Hazrat Ibrahim Alaihis salam ki Dua ka Zikr karte hue farmaya:

رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلَاةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِي رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاءِ (40) رَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ الْحِسَابُ

“Ya Rab! Mujhe bhi Namaz Qayem karne wala bana dijiye awr Meri Aulad me se bhi (aise log paida farmadiyye jo Namaz Qayem karen) Aye Hamare Parwardigaar! Aur Meri Dua Qabool farmalijiye. Aye Hamare Parwardigar! Jis Din Hisab Qayem hoga us din meri bhi Maghfirat farmaye, mere Walidain ki bhi aur un sab ki bhi jo Imaan rakhte hain.”(Surah Ibrahim 40-41)

  1. Allah Ta’ala Nooh Alaihis Salam ki Dua ka Zikr farmate hue Irshad farmaya:

رَبِّ اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِمَنْ دَخَلَ بَيْتِيَ مُؤْمِنًا وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ وَلَا تَزِدِ الظَّالِمِينَ إِلَّا تَبَارًا

“Aye Mere Parwardigar! Meri bhi Bakhshish farmadijiye, Mere Walidain ki bhi, Har Us Shakhs ki bhi jo mere Ghar me Imaan ki Halat me Dakhil hua hai, aur tamam Momin Mardon aur Momin Aurton ki bhi aur jo Zaalim Log hain, unko tabahi ke siwa koi aur Cheez ata na farmaye.”(Surah Nooh 28)

Hadees:

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: “إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَيَرْفَعُ الدَّرَجَةَ لِلْعَبْدِ الصَّالِحِ فِي الْجَنَّةِ فَيَقُولُ: يَا رَبِّ، أَنَّى لِي هَذِهِ؟ فَيَقُولُ: بِاسْتِغْفَارِ وَلَدِكَ لَكَ”(مسند احمد10610،تفسیر ابن کثیر،صحیح)

Abu Huraira Razi Allahu anhu ki Hadees ke unho ne farmaya : Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne Irshad farmaya:

“Beshak Allah Ta’ala apne Nek Bande ka Darjah Jannat me badhayenge, to wo kahega: Aye Mere Rab: Mera Darja kaise badha? to Allah Ta’ala farmayenge: Tumhari Aulaad ne Tumhare liyeke Istighfar kiya hai (is wajeh se tera Darjah badha hai.”(Saheeh,Tafseer Ibne Kaseer Surah Toor Ayat 21, Musnad Ahmad#10610)

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