WALIDAIN KE DOST AHBAAB KE SATH AHSAAN AUR HUSN E SULOOK KI AHMIYAT

WALIDAIN KE DOST AHBAAB KE SATH AHSAAN AUR HUSN E SULOOK KI AHMIYAT

Yaqeenan Maa-Baap Allah Ta’ala ki ek Azeem Nemat hai jiski Aksar Saheeh Qeemat Unke Dunya se Jaane ke Baad Maloom hoti hai, us waqt afsos se hum hath malte rehte hain ke Aye Kaash! Unki Qadr karli hoti. Quran o Hadees me Walidain ke Mutalliq kasrat se Ahkaam aye hain unko UFF kehna bhi bhot bada gunah bataya gaya hai. Ab Unke Inteqal ke baad kya kiya jaye ke Baaz Nafarmaniyon ki bharpaai hosake. Is silsile me to unke liye Dua e Maghfirat karni hai neez aur Aamaal bhi Shariyat ne bataye hain unme se Ek ye hai:
Hazrat Abdullah Bin Omar Razi Allahu anhu se marwi hai ke Rasool e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya:

Sab se Aala Nekiyon me se ek Aalaa Neki ye hai ke Koi Shakhs apne baap ke marne ke baad ya uski Ghair Maujoodgi me uske Doston ke sath Ahsaan O Sulook(acha sulook) kare.”
(MUSLIM, MISHKAT KITABUL ADAB BAAB BIRR WAS- SILAA)
Tashreeh: Matlab ye hai ke agar kisi ka baap margaya ya safar par gaya to uske doston ke sath Ahsaan o murawwat ka Mamla karna aur Husn e Sulook ka bartaao karna goya apne Baap ke sath Ahsaan aur Husne Sulook karna aur Iska ye mamla chunke apne Baap ki Ghair Maujoodgi me hoga is liye wo behtreen aur Aala Neki karne wala Shumaar hoga.

Note:- Hadees Shareef me sirf Baap ke doston ka Zikr karna is taraf Ishara karta hai ke MAA ki sakhi Saheliyon ke Sath Ahsaan o Husn e Sulook Badarje Aulaa Ek Behtreen Neki hoga. (MAZAHIR E HAQ 4/469)

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Walidain Ke Sath Unke Inteqal ke baad Husn Sulook karne Ka Tareeqa 1

Walidain ke Inteqal ke Baad Unke Sath Sila Rehmi/Husn Sulook karne ke tareeqe

Assalamu Alaikum. Agar Apke Walidain ya unme se kisi ka Inteqal hogaya ho aur Ap Unke Sath ab bhi Husn Sulook karna chahte ho to Ye Chand Aamaal hai jinke Karne se Ap ab bhi apne walidain ke sath Husn Sulook karsakte hain.

1.Unke Liye Istighfaar karna:

Quran:

1.Allah Ta’ala ne Hazrat Ibrahim Alaihis salam ki Dua ka Zikr karte hue farmaya:

رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلَاةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِي رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاءِ (40) رَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ الْحِسَابُ

“Ya Rab! Mujhe bhi Namaz Qayem karne wala bana dijiye awr Meri Aulad me se bhi (aise log paida farmadiyye jo Namaz Qayem karen) Aye Hamare Parwardigaar! Aur Meri Dua Qabool farmalijiye. Aye Hamare Parwardigar! Jis Din Hisab Qayem hoga us din meri bhi Maghfirat farmaye, mere Walidain ki bhi aur un sab ki bhi jo Imaan rakhte hain.”(Surah Ibrahim 40-41)

  1. Allah Ta’ala Nooh Alaihis Salam ki Dua ka Zikr farmate hue Irshad farmaya:

رَبِّ اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِمَنْ دَخَلَ بَيْتِيَ مُؤْمِنًا وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتِ وَلَا تَزِدِ الظَّالِمِينَ إِلَّا تَبَارًا

“Aye Mere Parwardigar! Meri bhi Bakhshish farmadijiye, Mere Walidain ki bhi, Har Us Shakhs ki bhi jo mere Ghar me Imaan ki Halat me Dakhil hua hai, aur tamam Momin Mardon aur Momin Aurton ki bhi aur jo Zaalim Log hain, unko tabahi ke siwa koi aur Cheez ata na farmaye.”(Surah Nooh 28)

Hadees:

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: “إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَيَرْفَعُ الدَّرَجَةَ لِلْعَبْدِ الصَّالِحِ فِي الْجَنَّةِ فَيَقُولُ: يَا رَبِّ، أَنَّى لِي هَذِهِ؟ فَيَقُولُ: بِاسْتِغْفَارِ وَلَدِكَ لَكَ”(مسند احمد10610،تفسیر ابن کثیر،صحیح)

Abu Huraira Razi Allahu anhu ki Hadees ke unho ne farmaya : Allah Ke Rasool Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne Irshad farmaya:

“Beshak Allah Ta’ala apne Nek Bande ka Darjah Jannat me badhayenge, to wo kahega: Aye Mere Rab: Mera Darja kaise badha? to Allah Ta’ala farmayenge: Tumhari Aulaad ne Tumhare liyeke Istighfar kiya hai (is wajeh se tera Darjah badha hai.”(Saheeh,Tafseer Ibne Kaseer Surah Toor Ayat 21, Musnad Ahmad#10610)

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Poori Insaniyat Ek Kumbah hai

Islam, Musalman aur Ghair Muslim part 1

Poori Insaniyat Ek Kumbah hai

Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

Maujoodah Ilmi haalaat ke pase manzar me Musalmano aur Ghair Muslim Bhaiyon ke darmiyan Ta’luqaat ka masla badi ahmiyat Ikhtiyar kar gaya hai, aur Afsos ke Hum is masle par Mahez Siyasi aur Maaddi Nuqta e Nazr se Ghaur karte rahe hain , Halanke Jab Hum Islam ko ek Hama Geer Aur Jame Nizam e hayaat samajthe hain, to hamaara farz hai ke Hum is masle par bhi Islami Nuqta e Nazr se sochen aur dekhen ke is baare me Haqeeqi Islami Talimat kiya hain?

Poori Insaniyat- Ek Kumbah

Is silsile me bunyadi baat ye hai ke Quran Majeed ke irshad ke mutabiq poori Insaniyat ka Aaghaz ek hi Hasti se hua hai, Khuda ne usi hasti se us ka joda paida kiya aur us jode se poori insaniyat wujood pazeer hui:

يَاأَيُّهَا النَّاسُ اتَّقُوا رَبَّكُمُ الَّذِي خَلَقَكُمْ مِنْ نَفْسٍ وَاحِدَةٍ وَخَلَقَ مِنْهَا زَوْجَهَا وَبَثَّ مِنْهُمَا رِجَالًا كَثِيرًا وَنِسَاءً

Tarjuma: “Aye Logo! Apne Rab se Daro, Jis ne tum ko ek hi jaan se paida kiya hai, aur usi se us ka Joda paida kiya hai, Neez un dono se Bhot se Mard o Aurat ko wujood Bakhsha.”

(Surah Nisa: 1)

Is tarah Islam  ki nazar me poori insaniyat ek hi kumbah aur khandaan hai, ye ek hi darakht ki shaakhen aur ek hi guldaste ke phool hain, is se hame insani Ukhuwwat(Bhai chaargi) ka sabaq milta hai, jaise ek Musalman doosre musalman ka Bhai hai, usi tarah Har Insan Insaani rishte se hamara Bhai aur Hamare Wasee’ tar Khandaan aur Kumbe ka ek Hissa hai, ye ukhuwwat O Bhai Chaargi hame Muhabbat o pyar ka paigham deti hai, aur is jaanib mutawaajah karti hai ke hamare Dil me har fard Bashar se Muhabbat honi chahye.

Islam,Musalman aur Ghair Muslim

Islam,Musalman aur Ghair Muslim.

Islam ek hama geer aur Jame mazhab hai, jo zindagi ke tamam shobon me Insaniyat ki rehnumai karta hai, wo banda ko Khuda se jordta hai, wo ek musalman aur doosre musalman ke darmiyan rishta ukhuwwat ko istewar karta hai, wo poori insaniyat ko ek doosre ke sath Wahdat ki ladi me pirota hai, aur 2 Qaumo ke darmiyan baham rawabit(connections) ke usool par raushni dalta hai isi liye Quran o Hadees me Musalmano aur Ghair Muslimo ke talluqaat ke baare me wazeh Usool maujood hain aur Fuqaha ne Apne Ijtehadaat ke zarye unhe mazeed munaqqah (wazeh) kar diya hai.

Maujoodah aalami haalaat me Islam aur Musalmano ke Khilaf maghribi propagandas aur Doosri taraf Mehroomi o Mayoosi se do chaar baaz mazloom Musalmano ke radd-e-Amal ki wajeh se Musalamno aur Ghair muslimo ke ta’luqaat ka Mauzoo bhot hi ahmiyat ikhtiyar kar gaya hai.

Ye ek Haqeeqat hai ke maujooda halaat me apni mazhabi shinakht(identity) ki hifazat ke sath usi rawadaari aur murawwat ko Furoogh dene ki zaroorat hai, jo insani ukhuwwat ke tahet Ghair Muslimo ke tayeen hum par aayed hoti hai, aur jo biainihi kitab o sunnat ki taleemaat aur us ke mansha o maqsad ke mutabi hai, kyun ke Jab Talluqaat motadil honge, tabhi Allah ke bando tak Allah ke deen ki dawat pohanchai jasakegi aur Khaliq aur Makhlooq ka rishta istiwaar karne me hum kamiyaab hosakenge, Musalmano ko baher Soorat ye baat yaad rakhni chahye ke wo DAYEE hain aur doosri Qaumen Mad’oo aur Mukhatab, aur Dayee ke liye wahi yak taraf muhabbat o dardmandi matloob hoti hai, jo kisi Baap aur Maa ko apni aulaad se hoti hai.

MAKHLOOQ E KHUDA SE HAMDARDI

¤¤¤HAMDARDI¤¤¤
Allah ke Rasool(SALLALLAHU ALAIHI WASALLAM) ne farmaya
“Ek Dafa Admi Raste par Chala jaa raha tha ke use Sakht pyaas lagi. Usne Ek Kunwa(well) paya to usme utar kar usne pani piya, phir Bahar Nikal aaya. Wahi ek Kutta tha Jo Pyas ke maare Zaban bahar nikal raha tha (haampte hue) keechad Chaat raha tha. Us Admi ne (Dil me) kaha :
Is Kutte ko bhi isi tarah pyas ne sataya hai jis tarah Mai uski Shiddat se Behaal hogaya tha, to Wo Kunwe me Utra aur Apna Mauza(leather sock)pani se bhara aur Usey Muh me pakad kar Upar Chadha aur Kutte ko pani pilaya.
Allah Ta’ala ne us(ke is Amal aur Jazbe) ki Qadar ki aur use Maaf farmadya.”
Sahaba(Razi Allahu Anhum) ne Arz kiya :
” Aye Allah ke Rasool(S.A.W)! Kya Hamare lye Chaupaayo(animals) <par taras khane> me bhi SAWAB hai?
Ap(Sallallahu alaihi wasallam) ne farmaya:
“HAR TAR JIGAR WALE(JAANDAAR KI DEKH BHAAL) ME AJAR HAI.”
[BUQARI & MUSLIM]

Aur Buqari kh Ek Riwayat me hai :
“Allah Ta’ala me us Shaqs ke Amal Ki Qadar ki. To Use BAQSH diya aur JANNAT me Daqil kardya..”

Subhan Allah! Itne se Amal par Allah ne Jannat ata kardi.
ISLAM MAZHAB KHAIR KHAHI ka hai.
Bhayyo! Garma ka Mausam hai, to Janwaro aur parindo.. K lye apne Ghar ki chat par ya apne Mahelle me ya kahi bhi Khususan in Bezubaan Janwaro k lye pani ka Intezam kijye. Kya pata Allah ta’ala ko hamara ye Amal pasand aajaye aur Wo Hum Gunahgaaro ke Gunah Maaf farmade aur Jannat ata farmade.

Ye Baat dusro tak pohanchayye taake agar koi 1 ne bhi Amal kiya to hame bhi Ajar milega. Aur ACHI BAAT BATANA SADQA hai.

Jazakallah khair.
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